As a minister, I’ve
witnessed hundreds of weddings. The scenes surrounding the ceremonies
were either masterfully orchestrated events, or disorganized
soap operas drenched in tears or slapstick comedy embarrassment.
Scientific theory might spout,
“stuff” happens, yet outcomes can be predicted based
of specific absolutes. Here’s what I know for sure:
The most awkward and unhappy
weddings are those done without thinking ahead and planning
for the desired outcome. That means considering the comfort
and ease of guests and vendors.
I recall conducting a beach
wedding in August or a lovely couple from Minnesota. Their families
and friends all flew into town for the event. Guests in high
heels had to walk at least 700 yards to a restroom. They looked
wilted before the ceremony began. Choose a location that will
provide the greatest comfort for your guests.
When you save a few dollars
by choosing a remote, outdoor location, away from the comforts
of electricity, restrooms, and water, but you may create chaos
and upsets. Having conducted weddings at popular sites along
the beach and in parks on both very hot & cold days, I seen
guests faint, shiver, or become so uncomfortable, they couldn’t
enjoy the ceremony. Portable sound systems failed, guests fell
down embankments or stairs and no back-up plan was in place
for inclement weather. Read
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Rev. Judy Winkler
Spiritual Coach
(619) 795-9996
San Diego, CA
www.weddingswthheart.com
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