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Weddings are usually quiet affairs full of rituals.
The invitations sent wrapped in red gift-wrap, as the traditional colors
of happiness and wealth are red and gold.
Any gifts of money are presented in red envelopes for the
same reason.
Red is the color of choice for the dress and some decorations
because red is the color of love, joy & prosperity.
The tea ceremony is an introduction of families. The tradition
is that the bride is to serve tea to both parents as a sign
of respect. Today, the bride and groom share in the serving
of tea.
During the ceremony both bride and groom pay homage and respect
to their parents and elders for the guidance and wisdom they
have bestowed upon them.
After the ceremony, firecrackers are lit to chase any evil
spirits and demons away from the couple.
The bride and groom make their rounds to each guest table
for a wedding toast.
Gold jewelry filled purses are also presented to the bride
by women relatives and close friends to portray her new status.
Traditional receptions serve 9-12 courses and the wedding
cake has many layers that represent a ladder of success. The
cake cutting ceremony will began from bottom to top to symbolize
the couple climbing to success. | 
